Monday, January 11, 2010

The Beginning: Finding a Great SLP

I am forever grateful to my SLP (Speech and Language Pathologist) Melissa A. She was so kind and patient with me through the scary beginning. When I first met her I couldn't look her in they eye.... because I was on the verge of tears! While I discussed long term and short term goals with another SLP she sweetly engaged Harrison, playing with a barn. If he got a little upset she calmly redirected him and reminded me not to worry, "He's new to this too." I did not chat much with her that first session, but I knew I was in good hands.

The relationship between SLP and both parent and child is essential to success. You have to work as a team, and rely on each other to maintain consistent focus. Building trust is critical. I truly believe Melissa has the training to bring Harrison to the next level. She is also kind and compassionate. I could not have asked for a better "first SLP." Sadly we are loosing her to the lure of full time work..... can't blame her, but we will surely miss her.

Once you have a diagnosis, you are going to be feel overwhelmed, but you can do a few things early to ensure success for your child. Check the reputation of the "center." You can look online at websites like Angie's List etc. Ask for references, inquire about educational backgrounds and ensure whoever will be working with your child is a (key word here folks) Certified Speech and Language Pathologist.

For your first SLP, I recommend you trust your parental instincts, and look for someone you can comfortably have open communication with. Watch the relationship they have with your child, they should be patient but focused. Language delays are often associated with behavioral issues so your SLP should be comfortable redirecting your child, or asking you to do this. I do think it's a good idea to do whatever you would at home, and once your child has calmed down ask for input, they may be a great untapped resource! Feel free to give it a few sessions before you decide. I hope you are all as lucky as we were in finding an amazing first Speech and Language Pathologist!




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